I have a 9,000 pound TJM. I was a little reluctant when I got it, because I was unfamiliar with TJM , but the Rover only shop that did my install was very positive on them, so I have it a try.
5 or 6 years on and it has done everything I have needed it to do.
Remote control is indeed a nice feature. I would not get one without it now.
If I ever take the bumper off again, I might change to a Warm 12,000 pound, as Eric at TR told me it would fit with a little grill trimming, but that would just be a "want" and not based on any adverse experience with the TJM.
Two points of advice:
1. Spend the extra few hundred and replace the two front bumper bolts with swivel-hoist bolts. I used one 7,000 pound and one 5,000 pound for mine. Those, along with the factory recovery point leave you lots of options for making pulls.
2. Make sure the shop you use uses the aluminum washer fluid tank that TR now includes with the bumper. It saves you space under the hood for other goodies.