Just to update the thread...
Shes running good as new again.. I ended up letting a local Honda parts shop / junkyard fix it since I was selling them a phone system.. it cost me $950 though
There was an oil leak visible that was spilling into the plugs and they said it was causing the plugs to be fouled up.. they changed both coil packs, all plugs and they fixed the leak- on the leak I think they said they changed the gaskets, valve covers or something like that.. The only problem is that all of the parts (coil packs, etc.. ) came off junked vehicles and weren't new.. I didn't know what the dealer would of charged me so I may have been no better off letting them fix it, but atleast she runs great again..
In conclusion it probably was one of the coil packs that was bad.. They charged me $125 for each coil pack (replaced both) and $100 labor for the coil packs if that sounds about right.. $600 was labor and parts to fix the leak, replaced gaskets, valves or something like that and supposedly changed out all 8 spark plugs.. So $950 total, which was a partial trade against a phone system I sold and installed for them.. I made about $500 profit on the phone system so I guess I can look at it that I paid around $450..