I've owned several SUVs, mini-vans and a Tundra. The LR3 is hands down best of the lot. It's not perfect, but I've owned Fords, a Chevy, Toyotas, Hondas, Mazdas, a Suzuki and a Nissan. I've always been a big "reliabiity" fan because of issues with vehicles when I was younger. However, with 3.5K miles on the '06 LR3 I purchased (had 19K miles), I have few complaints and many positives.
I live in Germany, so I looked hard at the BMWs, Audis and Volvos--I don't really like the looks of the Porsche or VW SUV. In the end, the capability, features and looks of the LR3 out-gunned all of the others. A friend of mine bought a new '07 LR3 after doing extensive research and test drives. I found the used one for only $35K! He loves his truck, but I love mine w/ the $20K discount even better.
I also looked at the V70 and believe as suggested that wagon may be a great alternative for you if a mini-van isn't cool enuf, but for that matter is a station-wagon? Good luck in your search.