As you look at engine from the front, their is a cover in back left side of the engine bay, right in front of where the passenger sits. If I recall, their are 3 plastic clips that you can move with you fingers and the whole lid will pop out. Then you will see the battery and a long black box right next to the fender on the passenger side. Their is one plastic clip on this cover, I needed to use a flat screwdriver to pop the latch and then the lid lifts off, which will expose the fuses and relays. If I recall, it is relay 14 (not positive might be 15 or 16) the backside of the lid will have a key to the different relays and if I recall, this one has a fan symbol on it. The relay pulls straight out, you will need to wiggle it as it is tight.
The relay you want is a 40 amp, White stripe relay if you have a 2005. When you look at the relays, you will see a white strip on it. I checked with the local auto parts store and they said I would need to get from LR. So I called LR and it was a $6 relay. Good Luck, and I don't have any pictures.