Ok, here is an update guys. I took the LR3 in to the shop and explained my above problem. I was told that my phone (Blackberry 8700) was not on the "approved" list of phone to work with the vehicle. I did tell them that the bluetooth had been working fine for a few weeks and then the above noted problem. I also mentioned a problem with the LCD display in the spedometer area of the instrument cluster which would fade to barely readable at times. That was Wed.
Today I receive a call back from service saying that there "definitely is a problem" but they can't figure it out as of yet. The intermittent LCD problem which I described has now become a constant problem since they attempted to fix it. No estimate on completion, "could be 5 mins or 1 week".
AAARGH!! I guess I was too lucky with my other two Rover's which really had NO major problems of service issues. More to follow when I learn more. Oh incidently, on the loner LR3, my phone works fine.... so much for the initial guess that the phone was not compatible.