When I had my 2014 Acura MDX it has a powered lift gate. Though it was convenient at times, most often it drove me nuts. That is because I am too darn impatient. Whether due to weather (standing in the rain) or something heavy in my hands or just plain in a hurry it always seemed like it took forever for the lift gate to get all the way up. And if I tried to "help" it it would "fight back". Didn't work for me.
Now I am sure there are many who like the automation. Personally, I like the "control" to be able to "just do it".
And I'm not sure the powered seat configuration is any different. In the video it seemed very slow although I guess there is some time savings in that multiple seats can be moving at once.
As for soccer moms, I expect most of them will have their car set up one way 99% of the team. The only question would be speedy, simple access to the 3rd row as the kids are piling into the car.
It is an interesting thing, though. Can we reach the point where supposedly clever automation just plain gets in the way? Where we have carried it too far? Certainly with many things in life the "automation" first seemed strange or different or a hassle and now we take it for granted. But I do think that at some point it becomes too much.
"Hey, Alexa, grill the burgers and bring me a beer."