Well, it's done. In summary, I found draining and pan removal to be super easy. I found I did have to chase those threads and that was a PITA. Same for fitting the screws and tightening them. Filling was honestly not too bad other than it took 20 minutes for the fluid to warm up. Maybe it's the lift and good tools, but I managed to avoid burns well. I thought it shifted well before, but it is silky-smooth now. Fluid was darkish but with a strong green tint still visible (13 years and 65k miles). I drained ~5.25 and put in close to that, though perhaps a bit under. I am now hoping for no leaks but none were visible after a short drive last night. Will keep monitoring. I hope the Lubelocker gasket does the job. Thanks to everyone's past experiences which helped a lot.
For me, assuming no leaks, this will be the first and last change since we struggle to put even 5k miles/year on this car and we are probably not keeping it beyond another 5 years or so.