JD, I generally agree with you, but then again, I don't. The LR3 is a unique vehicle, and wheels completely differently than a traditional solid axle vehicle. There are many times when very experienced trail leaders would give spotting advice to me and others with these modern rovers that would be totally appropriate for an older truck, but completely wrong for the LR3. In some cases, that advice has been costly, resulting in punctured gas tanks, bent door sills, torn bumpers, etc..
So if you are going to go the amatuer route and try to learn by following along with buddies, make sure you include someone expereineced with the LR3/RRS or MkIII RR. Fortunately SCLR has plenty of experienced LR3 drivers who can give good advice. On this forum, I would highly recommend Scott (Tryian) as one such SCLR member.
As a practicle example, Over the past few years I have trained quite a few people through SCLR and OffRoving.com (probably about 150 people in various activities/events). Last year I accompanied a buddy (who was new to off roading) to a Bill Burke training session. I was surprised at how valuable I found the experience. I did not learn much by way of technique or skill, but I definitely gained a better understanding of the technical theory and principles behind what I already instinctively (or habitialy) knew. I also learned quite a bit about how to be a more effective trail leader by watching how Bill interacted with the others in the class. He makes it look easy, but I have been in his shoes and know that it is not.
I have received formal training from Bill Burke, Tom Collins, Tom Severin, and indirectly from Tom Shepperd via his excellent books (what's up with all the trainers named Tom?). Without exception, I have found this training to be highly valuable and worth the expense. I am saving my pennies now to learn from Graham Jackson & Scott Brady at Overland University to become Overland Certified.
Photos of my weekend with Bill Burke at the DirtyToySchool. Note Bill's position relative to the driver in each evolution.
getting off topic here, but being on the more experienced side of off-roading, I think that money is better spent putting fuel in your tank and going with others and gaining your own experience thru watching others and your own hands-on experience. I am sure you learn a LOT in that 6hrs and I am sure the LR puts on one heck of a class, but you could probably do 6 trips of your own, including a packed lunch, with that same money. The key is getting into a group that isn't going to peer pressure you into something you don't want to do and listening to those with more experience.
J.D.