I just picked one in NY being VA resident. They were more than happy...I think he's referring to LR's corporate policy of not allowing their dealers to sell vehicles out of state to prevent in-house competition. From what I understand, if dealerships do this too often, their vehicle allocations can be lowered.
I had an out-of-state dealer politely refer me back to my local dealership for this reason.
Go for the packages, but don't pay for shipping. Either wait for one locally, or go pick it up....