Dear
@BigBriDogGuy
Great thread and excellent topic - so I am resurrecting / stealing this thread.
I am doing a rebuild (almost a complete overhaul) on my 2010 LR4 HSE (HD) with 90,000 miles (some hard).
We have reassembled the entire engine...and she lives!
We are nowhere near done but the fact that the engine has turned over means we haven't completely destroyed the truck and are likely to get through this build. Very exciting (and a relief).
That said, in approaching this build, I basically took
@itsaguything approach: we didn't radically modify anything and I am mostly using stock / OEM. In fact, I have had to be obsessive in sourcing parts due to the superabundance of crap parts (everywhere).
There are things I would totally like to do, like completely change the exhaust manifolds and straight pipe the exhaust with bigger / larger pipes. But that is illegal and there is not enough room down there to really do much with the manifolds (and as pointed out - there is no aftermarket for these trucks so new exhaust manifolds would have to be custom made...yikes!)
Or put 35 inch by 12.5 inch Mikey Thompson tires. They would be very cool and look really tough. But that would require huge modifications to the frame and wheel wells as well as SIGNIFICANTLY decrease off and on road performance (i.e. power). So super cool...and super stupid (at the same time).
Basically, without making radical redesign decisions (which will seriously compromise something else)...I don't know what one can really do. I suppose there is a way to re-tune the engine and one could always redo the exhaust or something...but without tearing out all kinds of stuff (which will screw everything else up) like ECU's, I don't feel that the gain is worth the pain.
However, like folks said, consistent maintenance, attention to details on parts and looking for OEM (or better) parts will likely give you longer running times and therefore overall better lifespan. For example, I installed an "improved" vacuum pump from the original as well as the new chains and tensioners / guides (which have the metal parts which are supposed to wear longer). These aren't really modifications, however, as they are really just upgrades to the OEM components which were factory installed.
So I don't have great advice as to upgrades themselves but can testify that these trucks can continue to perform (probably for a really long time) if one keeps up with ALL maintenance items and uses the best quality fluids/lubricants and parts.
Perhaps others have similar experiences or new insights -